(Philippians 2:3) In humility treat others as more important than yourself.

This is a very challenging exhortation by the apostle Paul. We are okay with showing kindness to others out of politeness, but to actually consider (regard) others as more important (valuable, superior) than ourselves is pushing our natural limits. 

Yes, this exhortation pushes us beyond our natural tendencies into the selfless agape love of Jesus Christ. 

As Christians, we are called to do nothing out of self-pride—elevating ourselves over others.

Left to our own sinful nature, we will naturally have an attitude of dominating others. However, Christians, filled with the Holy Spirit, are called to live a life that is not controlled by selfish ambition, vain conceit, or loveless pride. 

Philippians 2:3 is not telling us to demean ourselves for the sake of others, for Jesus tells us to “love others as we love ourselves.” It is very difficult to love others when we do not love ourselves. 

It is only out of our own personal security and wholeness in God that we can authentically humble ourselves and have an attitude of valuing others, which will lead us to loving action for their good. 

In your relationships, do you have an attitude of valuing others as more important than yourself? 

Once again, this does not mean neglecting yourself or becoming a door mat for others, it is emphasizing that as Christians we are called to love others as Jesus Christ has loved us.