(Psalm 133:1) How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity.

Notice this verse does not say, “How good and pleasant it is when we go to church services together.” 

It does not say this because the biblical definition of the word “church” is God’s people.

The focus of Psalm 113:1 is “God’s people,” it is not only talking about gathering together in a church service.

This verse emphasizes “living” together, not “attending” church together.

When we have deep relationships with other Christians—even a few—who are truly living surrendered lives for God--our experience is good, pleasant, enjoyable, and even fun. 

Living in unity with other dedicated Christians means we have the same heart passion and commitment to the values and mission of the kingdom of God.

We share life together, in all its ups and downs. Biblical friends are those we can cry with when things go bad, and rejoice with when things go well. 

We taste a little bit of what it is like in heaven when we share life together with true followers of Jesus Christ. 

We have a sense of "supernatural oneness" that only the Holy Spirit can create.

We care for one another. 

We protect one another. 

We pray for one another. 

We all must take the initiative to develop these deeper relationships with other believers. The pastor is not going to do it for you. And you can’t expect others to come to you. 

It takes time and discernment to develop lasting biblical friendships. It takes many small relational steps.

You will likely have to step out of your comfort zone. Some Christians you are trying to live life together with might disappoint you.

To have a close core group of deep Christian relationships does not come easy. It takes time, prayer, and common experiences over a longer period of time. 

However, to have a core circle of biblical friends is vital for your Christian growth and health.

Remember, Quality friends are much more important than a quantity of friends. 

Jesus chose 12.